Family, friends, and fans gathered together on Friday night at the Flyers home arena to pay tribute to the one and only Bernie Parent.
Photo Credits: FNG’s Rob Windfelder
Everyone is familiar with Bernie’s tremendous achievements on the ice. However it was his actions away from the rink that shone through as those closest to him recounted stories and memories of Philly’s favorite adopted son.
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Those in attendance heard stories of a dedicated husband and father. A teammate. A friend and mentor to many. A man who loved life and did whatever he could to help others see the beauty in it. Tales of an eternal optimist.
After hockey Bernie Parent tirelessly “gave back” to the community. His charity work included The Ed Snider Youth Hockey and Education Foundation, Saint Christopher’s Hospital for Children, and the SPCA.
“It’s a beautiful thing”
To hear so many speak so highly of this man really put things in perspective. Bernie was always focused on the simple and solid things in life. His beautiful philosophy on life focused on love, laughter, and being your personal best.
Granting yourself the opportunity to achieve your dreams. He believed in hard work and dedication, and he was dedicated to helping others realize their self worth and potential. He greeted every stranger like an old friend and started everyday with gratitude, prayers, and a positive outlook. …and apparently coffee. He was well aware of his good fortune and attempted to repay his dues by being good to others.
Everyone spoke of how when Bernie talked to you he made you feel seen, and loved, like you were the most important thing. These are amazing gifts for one human to give to another. Bernie touched so many lives in very strong and positive ways. Hockey was his way into our lives but his lessons went beyond that.
In closing, Bernie Parent is an inspiration. Be it sports excellence, self discipline, humor, love, charity, gratitude. Striving to live a better life and help others do the same. Learning to battle and beat addiction. Learning to do all of these things in such a humble and generous manner that it appears effortless.
The vast majority of us will never win the Stanley Cup, the Vesina Trophy, or the Conn Smythe …twice. But we can all be good to each other. We can all be more like Bernie Parent, and we should be.
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